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Last day of classes. Hayy.

10 Simple Pointers to Not Over-complicate the Over-complicated feeling of Love

jakepullsthetrigger:

3.9.2016

People tend to over-complicate over-complicated stuff such as love. Well, I like it direct and clear. Years of working in the agency thought me to think straightforward and systematically, but not robotic. So, here are some points that I think can help those broken hearted pips, or those who are just overly melodramatic about what they are feeling:

1. If you do not find you worth in him or her anymore, then it’s time to say goodbye. Never lose your worth.
2. If he or she doesn’t make time to you, ask and try to understand. If it is unreasonable, then say goodbye. You deserve more.
3. Do not over demand. The world doesn’t really revolve around you. Both of you have your separate lives. Learn to understand, and demand accordingly.
4. Give and receive - if one of them is not being fulfilled, get your ass out there. You’re never born stupid.
5. If you love him or her, tell him or her. There is nothing to be shy of.
6. If you are feeling something wrong, ask him or her. Talk about it. Not all people have that wonderful ability to see the future and read minds like those friends in Xavier’s Academy. Communication is best.
7. If you cheat, then have the decency of being honest about it then leave.
8. It is okay to ask but never assume. Have trust so you can have the right to thrust him or her if that trust gets broken.
9. Create wonderful memories together regardless of how unsure the relationship is. Love should never be a liability. Do not be afraid of losing that person someday and that all of those memories will be shit. Remember, memories make you for who you are. 
10. If all else fall, and both of you start going to separate paths, then be fair enough to say thank you for stopping by, and I hope that you find a better place someday. Say that to yourself again. There is no point in clinging into something that will never be yours again, unless you are a recycle machine of some sort.

Well, I do not know what the fuck I am really trying to say here, but heck yeah, that’s it. Destressing from office beybeh. Haha. Have a wonderful afternoon folks.

Yesterday during our laboratory..

Eto na talaga, matutulog na ako.

Goodnight 

Kaninang umaga, nalate ako ng 30mins dahil ang kupad kong mag asikaso kanina. Nagising naman ako ng 5:45am, pero dahil kulang sa tulog, tamad na tamad akong gumalaw kanina. Nung pagkadating ko sa school, ipinangako ko sa sarili ko na matutulog na ako ng maaga para hindi na muling ma-late.

Pero anyare ngayon? Hahahaha. 

10:35 pm na. :3

Kwentong pag ibig naman.

15months na pala nakalipas nung iniwan ako nung 1st love ko. Hahaha! Bilis ng panahon. Parang kailan lang na umiiyak ako madalas pag gabi. Haha! Pero masaya na ako ngayon.

Masaya na ulit. Salamat sa nagngangalang Aeronne John. Sa pagpahid ng mga luha at pagpalit ng nakasimangot kong expression sa nakangiti at masayang mukha. Sa kanya ko naramdaman na babae nga talaga ako. Naranasan kong habulin(hahaha), may magalit sakin dahil sa nagseselos sya(hahaha lagi syang ganito), naranasan ko for the first time na may sayawan ako sa harap ng ibang tao hahahaha. Naranasan ko din masundo sa school at ihatid pauwi. Mga bagay na hindi ko naranasan sa una hahahah.

Sabi nila, sa first love mo daw mararanasan ang maraming first(Malamang haha) pero pakiramdam ko parang si Aeronne ang first love ko. Parang feeling ko sya mas nauna talaga. Ahahaha. Ano ba tong pinag iisip ko.

Love na love na love ko syaaa. Medyo Ldr kami ngayon hahahhaha

Anobayaaan miss ko na sya. -_-

So here’s the synopsis during my inactive days..

Simula nung nag 2nd year ako, naging sobrang busy ako. Mula ako sa pang gabing klase (na konti lang ang units), lumipat ako sa pang umagang klase kaya ayun, sobrang daming subjects (kasama yung mga kelangan kong habulin para makasabay sa mga bagong classmates). Kaya tuwing magtutumblr pag may time, madalas puro reblog lang. 

Ang bilis lumipas ng panahon. Ang dami ng nangyari. Ang dami ko na ding hindi na-iboblog. May mga panahon kasi na kapag magtutumblr na ako, kapag magtatype na ako, saka ako nawawalan ng gana at balik nalang ako sa pagbabasa ng ibang blogs. Reblog reblog reblog. Hays.

3rd year college na ako sa course kong Civil Engineering Technology. Gagraduate nadin sana ngayong March kasabay ng mga classmates. Kaso may naiwan pa ako na hindi ko pa natake :( OJT. Hindi nakayanang habulin. Octoberian tuloy ako. Sayang panahon. Pero okay lang. Okay lang. Ito ang gusto ni God para sakin eh :) Hindi ko man alam dahilan ngayon, masaya padin ako.

Teka ano sunod?

I find myself so unproductive yet always tired. Y

an open letter to students

xwordsarenotenoughx:

superstudies:

to all the students who weren’t born smart, please know that hard work and perseverance can go miles farther than just being smart.

to all the students who feel tired from all-nighters and tests, it will be worth it in due time. don’t give in.

to all the students who have to study full-time and still work, please take care of yourself. it’s ok to rest.

to all the students who struggle due to mental or physical illness, please know that you are a great role model. you are the epitome of “no-excuses”.

and to all the students,

you are so brave to study. you are brave to learn and work hard to achieve your dreams.

you are so kind. kind enough to study for the future generations, for your family, and most of all, for yourself.

you are so strong. i admire how you manage to wake up in the morning and get shit done, even when you feel like falling apart.

you are intelligent. you are intelligent and wise enough to never stop learning.

you are a student. and i believe that all students are good because either way, they live to learn for themselves and for the world.

you are loved.

goodluck with your studies! xx

ughhh badly need this!! Thank youuuuu!!!

“Hi? Anybody home?”

Hays

I miss you so bad.